If your life is just about ideal then you don't need to read any further. On the other hand, if you're having significant problems in your life then congratulations. Congratulations about having problems? Yes, and here's why: you are going to learn, right here and right now, a method to solve your problems. Let's get started.

We don't want you to wait another second to get the help that you want or need, so here's the method to use for solving your problems. Say the following: I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you. Say this phrase silently to yourself, say it often and preferably say it all the time. That's it? I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you. That's all there is to it? No, it can go broader than that, but that's all you'll need. Just say the phrase, say it silently to yourself, and say it as often as possible and all the time as much as you're able.

Now would probably be a good time for a bit of explanation. Silently saying the phrase above is a process that's known as ho'oponopono. This process dates back generations and serves two purposes: firstly, it brings about an immediate sense of peace and physical relaxation; secondly, when used regularly over time, it leads to a person having all their needs met and directs a person to his or her perfect destiny.

We can hear the moans and groans now. A person gets all their needs met and is directed to their perfect destiny? Just by repeating a phrase? Give us a break! Folks, we're not asking you to believe anything. The technique is what it is. You don't have to believe that it will work: it will work even if you don't believe that it will. The one thing you have to do is to use the technique. That's your only obligation, if you decide to take it on: do what you've been shown how to do.

There's not much point in trying to talk a person out of their cynicism in this case. Be as cynical as you choose. Hold on to any beliefs that you want to have. This is your right and we respect it completely. The only request that we will make is for you to have a bit of an open mind and put forth a reasonable effort. Too much to ask? Again, it's your choice to make.

A critically important element of engaging the ho'oponopono method is to do so without attempting to dictate an outcome. For instance, a person uses the technique and then says, 'Okay, now I want this to happen in my life.' Not the way it works. Does anything reliably work this way? By making demands like this, you're preventing the highest source of inspiration and guidance from directing you in the way it knows is best. Move out of the way and allow the technique to do its thing.

It's not necessarily easy to do, but when you let go and allow yourself to be carried you're allowing the true magic of the technique to take place. Be clear of expected outcomes. Be clear of placing orders. Simply let go, and let yourself be taken to places that are right for you.

Is this some particular religious technique? No. Ho'oponopono has no ties to any specific religious belief. Why does the technique work? Are there variations of the technique? Can its outcomes be directed towards other people? These are issues that tend to come up as a person uses the technique over time, and there are resources available for finding responses to these issues. One thing that we've found to be true is that the more a person uses the technique, the more applications a person comes to see in the technique and the better a person gets at using the technique. This is probably true of anything: the more you do something, the deeper your experience gets.

So while the technique can go broader than what's been discussed here, if you've read this page then you have enough knowledge to legitimately apply a method for help and improving life that's been used across generations. Ready to jump in and get started on using it? We say why not. Start to help yourself -- and everyone else too!

We really like it when people have a desire to know more about ho'oponopono. Why? Because curiosity tends to lead to engagement, and the more people who engage the process the better off we'll all be. We mean that sincerely, and you'll feel the same if you really embrace the technique for yourself. So how about some other ho'oponopono resources? Okay. This is a good free resource. The entire site in fact has various resources, some that are free and some that they charge for. This site has paid resources, and a few free resources. There's a widely published book about the technique that you might like. If you want to get our insight or opinion about the ho'oponopono process, drop us a line. We'll try our best to answer all the correspondence that we get.

The most important resource is already available to you through using ho'oponopono. Use the technique sincerely and you'll find the answers and the help that you're looking for, right where you are.